Emotional Wealth

Are you emotionally wealthy?

Therapy is not just about mental illness, it is about mental and emotional health and in my book it’s about emotional wealth. I believe we are all capable of emotional wealth. Whether you call it emotional intelligence, empowerment, self-actualization, or passion for life, an emotionally wealthy life is essential. Can you answer yes to these questions?

  • Are you emotionally strong?
  • Are you passionate?
  • Can you grieve deeply and love fiercely?
  • Can you tolerate fear and overcome it?
  • Can you channel your righteous anger into right action?
  • Can you use your petty anger as a mirror for growth?
  • Can you tell the difference?
  • Are you living with your whole heart and soul?
  • Can others lean on you without breaking you?
  • Can you maintain your equanimity when things go right, when things go wrong, when things get boring and when things get chaotic?
  • Are you honest with yourself and others about your feelings and beliefs?
  • Can you tolerate disapproval and disappointment?
  • Can you face your dark side: greed, envy, jealousy, shame, anger, fear, intolerance, laziness, judgment, and superiority? And can you embrace your dark side in order to transform it?
  • Can you sit still with your impulse to act and move forward when you feel scared or stuck?
  • Can you handle your emotions without stuffing them through food, alcohol, smoking or other addictions?
  • Do you give your love to another freely and without strings?
  • Do you receive love openly and defenselessly?
  • Do you face pain with courage and fortitude?
  • Can you love fully even though doing so involves the risk of loss?
  • Can you set and keep boundaries even in the face of disapproval?
  • Can you generate right action even when you are tired, lazy, scared or depressed?
  • More than self-esteem, do you genuinely like yourself most of the time?

autumn reflectionThese are some of the hallmarks of emotionally wealthy people. I have yet to meet the person who can say yes to these questions all of the time. But when people engage in good therapy they discover many of these characteristics. See Why Mindfulness. They become emotionally wealthier and these benefits last a life time. And becoming emotionally wealthy yourself engages the law of attraction to bring other emotionally wealthy people into your life. If you answered no to some of these questions, consider how much richer your life would be if you could answer yes to them. Comments or Questions?

 

Jeanne M. Strauss, LCSW, NBCCH • 210-787-6384 • Email

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